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In this section, we break down the concept of confidence into a set of practical, easy-to-use principles. These articles will help you understand and cultivate the essential characteristics of confidence, and apply them in every area of your life — at home, at work, and out in the world.

Create the Ultimate Social Sales Funnel

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Jon Levy really gets how the social sales funnel works, and why it’s so important. Jordan recently had the leading behavior expert, consultant and writer on The Art of Charm Podcast, and I was amazed at how much overlap there is between what he’s doing and what we’re doing. Among others, Levy has had Nobel laureates, royalty — literal royalty, … Read More

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7 Boring First Date Ideas that Are Guaranteed to Kill Any Chance of A Relationship

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When you’re going on a first date, you’ve got unlimited options for dates, and no shortage of bad first date ideas. What’s most important when you’re heading on a first date is some kind of activity both of you enjoy. I generally advise guys to plan activity dates for two simple reasons: They allow you two to get to know … Read More

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7 Scientifically Proven Tips to Prevent Your Family from Driving You Crazy During the Holidays

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Are you dreading the inevitable fights and blowups that are as much a family tradition as lighting the Menorah or decorating the Christmas tree? Yes, dealing with family during the holidays can be an arduous task, but let this be the year you move past all that.  Below are 7 scientifically proven tips for how you can keep your cool … Read More

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A Daily Checklist for Staying Confident

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Wondering how to build your self-confidence? Week in, week out we have guys arrive here in Los Angeles for residential boot camps. And while we teach a lot of hard skills, we also emphasize one rather softer skill: practical confidence, the engine that drives everything we teach at The Art of Charm. One fascinating thing I’ve come to know about … Read More

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The Underlying Reasons for Poor Confidence

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The most helpful way to gain confidence is to first identify whatever it is that has you feeling insecure.  Because once you know the fundamental reason for that lack of confidence you can start to do something about it.  Below are a few of the most common reasons guys lack confidence with women, and some tips on ways to gain … Read More

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How You Can Earn Self-Esteem

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Looking to improve your confidence and self-esteem? They’re very different beasts. Confidence is something you can fake; Not self-esteem, though. That’s something you’ve got to earn. Perhaps hardest of all, you have to earn it from yourself. So how do you earn self-esteem from yourself? How do you tap into that reservoir of value that runs through you? It’s not … Read More

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Why Confidence Is More Important Than Looks

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The Art of Charm isn’t going to pretend that looks aren’t important when it comes to dating. Of course they are, and you’d know that we were lying if we told you otherwise. But there are things far more important than looks when it comes to attracting women. Above all, confidence is probably the most important tool you can have … Read More

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